I'm sure everyone can relate to this blog post.
What exactly is regret? Regret is an uncomfortable feeling letting you know that something you did or failed to do can’t be changed. It’s a sense-of-loss that you feel about something.
At one stage or another in your life I bet you have done something that you regret and that you play that situation over and over again in your head about how you should have/ could have done things differently to get a different outcome, F*ck I know I have... well let me tell you those thoughts of regret are a waste of time, nothing can be done to undo what has already been done, unless there has been a time machine invented that i am unaware of?
Instead of regretting what has happened, you need to turn the situation around and ask yourself, what have I learnt?
Moving past regret:
1. accept where you are right now
2.Learn from this
3. Focus on the good
4. move forward
You can spend hours of your life with regrets or you can move on with knowing you have learnt something. Lately I have been thankful instead of miserable and I have never felt so great!
The simple truth about life is that it is shaped by the attitudes we have. If we surround ourselves with negativity the return will be negative, if you choose to see the best you will get the best. What we think we also become.
“It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.”
– William Shakespeare
The time has come to stop driving with the cruise control on and to stop doing what everyone else is doing, Its time to take the wheel of your own life and start getting control back of your own life.
I back seat drive myself, second guess everything I do, wondering if what I write will be too honest and pi$$ someone off.. or if anyone will actually like what I write. The truth is I want to attract people who understand me, I want my vibe to attract my tribe, I want to attract people that can relate and know what I'm on about, I want to attract people who actually get me.
It is so hard to be 100% in control of your life in these days, everyone is worried about what others will think, want to be like someone else, wants what someone else has, only does it because everyone else is doing it.
How can you take back control of your life?